In this episode, Mike and Alicia Hernon explore the transformative impact of conversations with children. They emphasize the importance of fostering a family culture centered around meaningful dialogue. From toddlers to teens, discover practical strategies for nurturing curiosity, understanding, and mutual respect within the parent-child relationship. Don't miss out on this engaging discussion that highlights the profound influence of conversations in shaping both children and parents alike. For more information on this and other topics visit: https://www.messyfamilyproject.org/
Conversations form your children, but more importantly, it forms YOU
Kids will not always remember what you said, they will remember how they felt.
Conversations should be different depending on the age of the child
Conversations should be part of your family culture. How the conversations happen, when they happen, and what you talk about.
On a scale of 1-10 how good are we at talking with our kids? How can we improve?
What is the most difficult part of talking with the kids? How can I get over this?
What assumptions do I make when I am talking to my children?
What are some topics my children would like to talk about?
“Thank you, every woman, for the simple fact of being a woman! Through the insight which is so much a part of your womanhood you enrich the world's understanding and help to make human relations more honest and authentic.”
~ John Paul II, Letter to Women
Women have particular gifts to bring to the world which were identified by John Paul II as the “genius of women”. The Given Institute was created by religious superiors of the major orders in the United States and works with young women in all states of life to help them realize that they are gift, work to discover their unique giftedness and then make a plan to bring those gifts to the world. In this podcast, we discuss these topics with Michelle Hilleart, their Executive Director who is passionate about the need for women to know their own dignity and worth. There are so many lies and confusing messages being given to young women today and these messages are preventing them from not just being who they were created to be, but also preventing them from knowing how they were created. Listen in to hear about what REAL “girl power” is!
John Paul II identified the “genius of women” as receptivity, sensitivity, generosity, and maternity.
Every woman is called to be a spiritual mother - whether she is a natural mother, single woman, or consecrated woman.
Every woman is called and gifted and those gifts begin to grow when a woman knows who she is as a daughter of God.
Once we know what those gifts are we should then create an “action plan” to bring those unique gifts to the world.
Do I recognize my dignity as a daughter of God?
What are the gifts that are uniquely mine?
How can I develop those gifts and bring them to the people around me?
“It's our experience that parents who don’t allow their children to play with weapons have little boys who will chew their toast into the shape of a gun”
Hello, I wanted to ask a question in regard to violent play for a toddler. My 4 year old boy is obsessed with all types of toy swords, lasers, etc. Any suggestions on how to manage it in a way that lets him explore but also places limits on it?
This question came from a listener who is a mom of a normal boy! But often this type of behavior catches parents unaware. Our culture gives so many confusing messages to boys in the world. Sometimes the behavior of little boys can be surprising or even shocking to moms who aren’t used to rough and tumble play. But the beauty of boys is that they are made for this! And playing is how they learn to make sense of the world around them, handle conflicting emotions and learn to relate in a healthy way to other boys. In this podcast, we tackle the issue head on with some funny stories and practical advice. We also discuss some of the psychology behind the emotional life of boys and what parents need to do to keep their boys well-adjusted and loved. In the end we have tips for you on how to teach your boy to use his body in a way that respects himself and others.
Violent play in young boys is natural and when it comes from within their own mind (not from images introduced to them) it is not just harmless, but important to allow.
Boys work out their emotions physically. The verbal and emotional parts of their brain are not hard wired as girls’ are.
Getting your boys comfortable and confident in their bodies is essential for their emotional and mental health.
Boy’s emotions are just as present and as deep as girls are. They are just expressed differently and need to be responded to differently.
What do I find hardest about my boys
How can we respect the way they are made
Resources:
Documentary on the emotional life of boys
Join Mike and Alicia Hernon on this enlightening episode of the Messy Family Podcast as they sit down for an insightful interview with Bishop Joseph Coffey of the Archdiocese of the Military (United States). Together, they explore the intriguing question, "Where do Bishops Come From?" and delve into Bishop Coffey's personal journey of faith, discernment, and leadership within the Catholic Church.
With candor and wisdom, Bishop Coffey shares his unique perspective on the role of bishops in today's world and offers valuable insights into the formation and responsibilities of these spiritual leaders. From his early experiences in the military to his calling to the priesthood and eventual consecration as a bishop, Bishop Coffey's story is both inspiring and enlightening.
Throughout the conversation, Mike and Alicia engage Bishop Coffey in a wide-ranging discussion that touches on topics such as the challenges facing the Church, the importance of prayer and discernment in leadership, and the role of bishops in shepherding their flocks through turbulent times.
Whether you're a devout Catholic seeking a deeper understanding of the Church's hierarchy or simply curious about the journey of bishops, this episode offers a fascinating glimpse into the life and ministry of one of the Church's spiritual leaders.
Subscribe now and join Mike, Alicia, and Bishop Coffey as they navigate the complexities of faith, family, and leadership in today's world.